St. Nicholas Day & a Simpler Holiday

One Christmas corner in our house

Has Christmas turned into a 3-month event?

Holiday advertising seems to be everywhere by mid-October, and the New Year sales don’t end until the middle of January. Each year, it seems that the holiday season gets longer and longer. The celebrations get more and more elaborate.

How can you create a simpler holiday when the commercial pressures are all around you?

I was amazed to recently learn that Advent calendars have become a big business. I mean, huge. 

Now, my old paper Advent calendar feels perfect to me. There’s lovely Nativity scene, a bit of glitter, and a Bible verse behind every door. When Advent calendars with chocolate behind every door came along, I, as a chocolate lover, was all for it. Still, while they seemed quite festive to me, I was always happy with my faded paper one.

But chocolate was just the beginning. Now you can get calendars with a whole world of stuff. Merch.

One item every day of Advent. Make-up. Skin care. Jam. Beef jerky. Toys. Coffee. Even wine. 

A young Danish homesteader wrote this week that she was so turned off by the commercialization of Christmas, she had pretty much given up on celebrating the holidays. No lights. No carols. No shopping. 

But somehow, her little girl, hardly more than a toddler, asked her about Father Christmas. How could she deny her child the pleasures of Christmas?

How can all of us experience more Christmas joy?

The Danish woman’s solution turned out to be exactly like mine: to focus on the basics. To enjoy the lights and music and rituals without a lot of shopping or fancy celebrations. As I do, she’s baking goodies to give as gifts and stringing lights around the house. And like me, she sings Christmas carols while she cooks and does her chores. 

Unlike her, I don’t have a little one to sing to, but I can enjoy the carols all the same. 

Today, December 6th, is the Feast Day of St. Nicholas—the patron saint of children, and the real-life inspiration for holiday gift-giving and Santa Claus. This year, I have promised myself to do something Christmasy each day of Advent. (That is, besides opening the little door on my Advent calendar.)

It doesn’t need to be much. Watching a gentle Christmas movie, reading about others’ simple celebrations, starting my Christmas letter, planning some festive—though simple!—meals during the season. Learning more about the religious aspects. Tonight, I’m putting out the first decorations, and baking some cookies. 

You may find, if you give up all the rush and bustle and present-buying and fancy celebrations, a much more meaningful holiday. 

I also celebrated St. Nicholas Day by harvesting the last of our fall carrot crop! Carrots are at their absolute sweetest if you wait to pick them until after first frost of fall. We had an extremely late first frost, 6 weeks after the average one. December 1st! 

We’ll have festive dinners all through the holiday season with these sweet carrots!

Sweetness in the meals to come!